12 July 2010

Relation-ship


Given time, everyone will change and show their true colours.

I think I've said this before.


But is it true that once we grow tired of that person, we will have lower threshold of losing our nerve and let out our anger on him/her? Rhetorical question.


A lot of men (and women of course) out there who appear calm and collected at their workplace and hold back all the work-related stress and frustation, only to let it out on their families at home.

Are we taking granted people we claim we care for?

To them it is SAFER to unleash all of those anger and negative emotions to their love ones, knowing well enough that they will never leave you. As oppose to let it out on your boss and risk of getting fired.

My take on this.
If we never scold a stranger over a trivial matter, on a basis of basic courtesy and respect for another human being.
Then we should never do the same to our friends & families.

After all these are the people who actually care about us.










4 comments:

Cat-from-Sydney said...

Doc T,
My Mama is having a hard time at the workplace from some people whom we know (for sure) are hen-pecked at home. So, how? har har har *sad laughs*

Ri... said...

Anger is definately a negative enetgy that need to channel out somehow... Not everyone will channel those to their families although some does.

Taking that comic strip as an example, blogging is definately a good way to release any negative emotion. So yeah, if that guy frustrated with whatever happen on thatbed, it's probably better for him to blog it out rather than lashing it out on her, no?

:)

Dottie With Dots said...

I agree with all the above.

So where do I sign?

Pill Pusher said...

CIS: Don't know what you talking bout there willis.

Ri: Hah! For a while I thought i was that guy. But hey I could be that woman.

DwD: Here, here and... yup here.